“When to love means to let go” is the true story of the last 10 years of my life – a story about true love and deep soul-connection, about how I was the sole carer for my husband who had terminal cancer, how I realised that the most loving thing I could do for him in the end was to let him go, and what I have learned from my grief following his death in 2018. This is a book written for those who are caring for a loved one with terminal cancer and for those who have recently been bereaved but also for healthcare professionals who are interested in exploring the perspective of their patients and their relatives.